Thanks to everyone who weighed in on which hair and makeup styles I should go with for my friend's wedding. After much consideration and mulling over of your comments, the winners are:
Neutral brown eye, pink cheeks and lips. However, I am going to incorporate the suggestions I received to go a little heavier with the application so my makeup photographs well. I'm going to smoke out the eyes a bit and choose a deeper lip color.
This soft updo was an almost unanimous choice by you. And by me. I'll admit that this is the hairstyle I've favored from the get-go. So thanks for validating my choice!